The last few weeks have been unprecedented for all of us. The Covid-19 pandemic is impacting our daily routines and changing the way we work and live. These are unusual times that can impose additional stress and challenges for everyone. Here are a few tips to help you stay resilient in this trying time.

  1. Limit your consumption of social media and news

For most of us, we have never experienced anything like this before – a global shutdown of economy, social distancing measures, and indefinite lockdowns. When things are changing minute to minute, we may inevitably experience feelings of powerlessness and helplessness. In such uncertain times, our mind which is naturally geared to help us survive will desperately search for any information or solutions that will help us gain clarity. What is clear, however, is that we will find ourselves feeling even more overwhelmed when we overconsume social media and news on Covid-19 which are often negatively skewed and sensationalized. Bad news can become more distressing when our anxious minds gravitate towards the worst-case scenarios.

 

Tip: Stay informed but not overwhelmed. Limiting exposure to social media and new does not mean we need to take the classic “head in the sand” approach and pretend nothing is happening. Find trusted and reliable information sources and read necessary information (i.e., government announcements) no more than 1 hr. each day.

 

  1. Find a new routine

We may also notice there are changes in our day to day life. We can no longer have our normal friend gatherings or parties. Kids are at home all the time. The worst part of this is that we don’t know how long this is going to last. There is no road map for this. Having a little predictability and a sense of control may help when we are unsure what this will look like in 1 week or 1 month from now.

 

Tip: Try to find a new routine. Go to bed and wake up at a regular time. Balance work, self-care, eating, and exercising so that you feel a bit more in control of your day. If you have children, you can also help them construct a new routine as they may experience increased anxiety, worries and fears, or boredom due to the disruption of their regular school routines.

 

 

  1. Focus on small and doable plans and goals

The quarantine has definitely changed the timing of our goals and plans. People have to cancel their big plans like weddings and trips. Such rapid changes at the global level due to the pandemic can make us feel powerless and disoriented about the life goals we had set.

 

Tip: Let go of the plans that you have no control over and reprioritize what is small but doable. Put a pause on goals that are currently out of your control. For example, it is impossible to stick to the rigorous gym exercise program when all the gyms in town are closed down but you can adopt home exercises as an effective alternative.

 

  1. Find your own breathing space

Due to shutdown measures, the majority of us are spending most of our time at home. Your personal space and time are likely significantly limited if you are living with other people. All of a sudden, your partner, parents, or kids are with you 24/7. If you are feeling suffocated, you are definitely not alone. Despite how much we love our family and friends, we all need this little retreat space for us to breathe and feel like ourselves again.

 

Tip: Find a space in your home where you can take a break when feeling stressed. It is okay for you to excuse yourself for a self-care break. You are not being selfish. You are just simply trying to take care of yourself before you can take care of others. Think of it as mandatory maintenance for your own well-being.

 

  1. Social distancing does not equal to zero social interaction

Social distancing rules are in place to protect our physical health but it has a huge negative impact on our mental well-being. It can easily cause us to feel extremely lonely and depressed in a time of uncertainty and fear. We are social creatures after all and we need emotional connections especially when fear and anxiety is prevalent. We naturally feel more secure and safe when we are connected as a community. Our pain and anxiety can be eased when it is heard by others.

 

Tip: Reach out to your family, friends, and coworkers. Try to keep in touch with the important people of your life via FaceTime, Skype, phone calls, or texting. Explore virtual social activities such as online games, hobby forums, virtual concerts etc. If you have children, you may also help them set up virtual playdates!

 

  1. Ask for help and support

Many people may find it hard to stick to their regular physical or psychological treatments because of the pandemic. This is a psychologically challenging time for everyone. Feeling vulnerable does not mean you are weak. It simply means you are a human being and need some support and help during this unprecedent time.

 

Tip: Keep up with your therapy sessions the best you can. If you do not feel comfortable with in-person appointments, ask your therapist if they offer virtual therapies. Many of them are still available to you even at distance. If you never had therapy, it is perfectly ok to seek out help for the first time.